Marriage and Family: Children
Statement of Belief
We believe that children, within the family unit ordained by God, are called to honor and obey their parents. This command is fundamental in maintaining familial harmony and is a practical expression of children's love for God. The obedience of children to their parents is tied to God's promise of a fruitful and prosperous life.
Ephesians 6:1-3 — Colossians 3:20 1)
Additional Information
The role of children in a Christian family is clearly elucidated in the biblical narrative. According to Ephesians 6:1-32), children are instructed to obey their parents as this is right in the eyes of the Lord. “Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), that it may go well with you and that you may live long on the earth.” This command reinforces the importance of obedience and respect for parental authority as essential components of a God-ordained family structure.
The Apostle Paul reiterates this instruction in Colossians 3:20: “Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing in the Lord.” The emphasis here is on the pleasing nature of obedience to God. When children honor and obey their parents, they are, in fact, honoring and obeying God, who has placed these parents as authorities over them.
We believe that the role of children, as defined by these scriptures, is to respect and obey their parents in all things that align with God's laws. This obedience is not merely a duty or obligation but is an expression of their love and respect for God, who commands such obedience.
Furthermore, this obedience is tied to God's promise of a fruitful and prosperous life. As children honor their parents, they cultivate virtues such as respect, humility, and love, which are essential for their growth and development. These virtues, in turn, contribute to the overall harmony and stability of the family and society at large.
In conclusion, the role of children in a Christian family, as outlined in Ephesians 6:1-3 and Colossians 3:20, is one of honor and obedience towards their parents. By adhering to this role, children can cultivate God-honoring relationships within their family, contribute to a harmonious family environment, and receive the promise of God's blessing. This obedience is a fundamental part of their Christian duty and a practical expression of their love for God.